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Accept Criticism with Poise



Accept Criticism with poise
-Hanumat Sharma

Criticism is imperative.  One can’t let anything and everything get into one’s head and shatter the peace of mind. The world today has developed a notion that vindictiveness is the solution to lock stock and barrel. Is it?


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Well, it is not so.  It is always said that one should remain close to the people who criticize you. The prowess of remaining ever-beaming and positive towards the ones who thrive on your weakness is not only an answer but your subtle win. Moreover, they are the ones who place a mirror in front of you, a mirror which reflects all your weaknesses. To accept criticism objectively can only be achieved by a person who has a modest amount of patience and composure.
Another response to these people should not be antagonistic but it should be empathetic. Never presume what somebody tells you is irrational or wrong. Respect other’s opinions and carefully analyze it. If you feel that it is logical, improve upon it and if you feel that your opinion is correct, beg to differ in a polite way.  If one wants to show superiority by showing one’s rage, take it as a challenge to achieve your goal and do something so exceptional and admirable which sets an example that patience, poise and equanimity can conquer all.

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Anonymous said…
mindblowing content.... great job
-Krishna Saproo
April 6, 2020 at 6:05 AM
Unknown said…
Very nice dear 👍 keep it up.
April 6, 2020 at 6:30 AM
Unknown said…
Well Done Hanu Mat ..🍺🤜🤛
April 6, 2020 at 7:36 PM
Unknown said…
You always make me proud ❤️
Well done 👍👍👍
April 7, 2020 at 12:55 PM
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